When people want to start a new endeavor, they often wait for the "perfect" time or a "better" time — a time that's more "con...
Start Now!Jan 11, 2025 Is this the end?Dec 24, 2024 I started this blog in 2019. It's almost 2025 now.
This is how complaining looks to othersAug 3, 2024 We all complain. The ideal is perhaps never to complain, but that's impossible since we're all human beings.
This is the first step towards greatnessJul 27, 2024 In this article I'll share my idea of a crucial step in becoming great in any endeavor. Without this ability, greatness is not possible.
Stop Asking for PermissionJul 23, 2024 I originally wrote this article in early April – but never published it. So it just sat on my desktop.
Play to Your StrengthsMar 10, 2024 Playing to your strengths can be considered a universal principle of life. You've probably noticed that you're naturally better in some things and yet...
If You Say 'I'll Try', You've Already FailedFeb 17, 2024 Language is powerful. Words are not 'just' words.
Balance is a MythFeb 11, 2024 People talk about work-life balance. And try to find ways to achieve it.
Day 54 of 75HARDFeb 4, 2024 Today marks the 54th day of my #75hard journey. And so this post is a progress update.
Here's how to follow through with 2024 goalsDec 30, 2023 We all set goals for the new year. Or at the very least everyone's thinking about it.
#75HARD: Mental Toughness is a SkillDec 17, 2023 I recently stumbled upon this program called 75 HARD. It's a program that will teach you discipline.
Don't try to salvage what's rottenNov 11, 2023 Sometimes some things end. But we refuse to accept it and try to salvage it.
Have a sense of urgencyNov 4, 2023 I often see people pissing away their time. If they don't have a task, they just sit idle.
You can never go wrong by being silentOct 28, 2023 So I was listening to the Lex Fridman podcast. In that particular episode, his guest was Walter Isaacson - currently, the most famous biographer.
There are no rules in this worldSep 19, 2023 There are no rules in this world. There are only actions and consequences.
Be boredMay 7, 2023 When was the last time you were bored? Bored as when you were a kid on a summer break and had nothing to do.
It's not going to be hard - it'll be very hardMay 1, 2023 Okay, this is what I've noticed: many people get wrong estimating the amount of work that they think needs to be done versus the amount of work that a...
The #1 Reason We Fail to Establish a New Habit - Solution Included!Jan 14, 2023 I think the biggest reason is this: we set the bar way too high. By setting the bar high, we make the new habit complicated and hard to follow through...
Here comes the New Year: which path will you go?Dec 30, 2022 On your path, there's a fork in the road. You've come to a point where a choice needs to be made.
What is Your ONE Thing?Nov 27, 2022 One of the most important books I've read is The ONE Thing by Gary Keller. It's a little book and easy to read but despite that its message is not any...
You Make the Rules of Your Life (any way you want)Nov 19, 2022 Social conditioning is a state in which people do stuff that other people do - not because they necessarily want to - but because others are doing it....
Stuck in a Dead-end Job?: Change Your Life, Become a Digital Nomad - Here's HowNov 5, 2022 To live (almost) anywhere in the world and do your work independently where ever and whenever you wish, you need to have certain skills. There are som...
Market Yourself ProperlyNov 5, 2022 "Aspiring photographer", "self-taught developer", and "junior front-end engineer" are some of the ways I've seen people...
Top Style Mistakes People Make All The TimeNov 5, 2022 Style and fashion are very subjective and rules can be broken if you know what you're doing. But...
Never criticizeOct 1, 2022 This is the first - and by far the most important rule - when it comes to getting people to be on your side. It's the first principle in the massive m...
What is the key component in learning?Sep 24, 2022 For the past few years, I've had to teach myself quite a few new skills. And I've experimented with different techniques, methods, principles, ideas.....
Follow Your Own PathSep 10, 2022 Isn't it quite insane that only so few people out of the so so many do what they want to do in life? When I was doing my degree in tax law I talked to...
You are setting the wrong goals — instead do what the PRO’s doSep 4, 2022 You probably set goals such as "get fit", "lose weight", "quit this bad habit", and "learn a language". These...
Implement this one simple tweak into your life to completely transform your lifeJun 11, 2022 But 99% of people are not going to do it. They won’t do it even if it’s essentially proven that their lives would be 10x in quality and amount of happ...
If you don't tell the truth, you'll go to hellApr 2, 2022 So I recently began reading - or rather, listening (read by the author by the way!) - to Jordan B. Peterson's 2 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos.
My thoughts on the war in UkraineMar 12, 2022 I'm no military expert, but I do understand some universal principles that never lie. These principles apply to all of us - whether you're rich or poor, powerful or not, there's no way around them.
- Inflexible systems will break. It's simply a matter of time. So will the collapse of the Russian Empire be inevitable. It will collapse just like the Soviet Union collapsed. And it will keep collapsing over and over again until the root of the problem is fixed.
The more inflexible you are, the more probable the breaking. Everyone knows that Bruce Lee quote: "Be like water...".
- Superior firepower doesn't mean much. Just like the US had superior firepower in the Vietnam war, but in the end, had to pack their bags and admit the loss. Yet people keep insisting on counting numbers - who has more of this or that. It's silly - the workings of the Universe are way more complex. There are too many variables at play.
One of the most important ones is the "will".
The will or what Napoleon Hill called - "the burning desire" is what nobody pays attention to it. Yet this is one of the most important factors - if not the most important factor. Now, Putin has the will, but does also his army? Not so much. Yet, on the Ukrainian side, not only has the leadership the will, but also the people.
Another great example of this is the Finnish Winter War. Look that up. Many similarities in these wars.
- Putin can't stop because stopping would be admitting a loss. And losing would demolish his entire identity. See, many people would rather die than have anything interfere with their reality - reality constructed by their ego.
Ever seen little kids playing a game and when one loses, she gets very angry and throws the board on the floor? It's the same thing. In the kid's mind, she can't accept what is. It's not about losing the game, it's that this reality does not fit with the reality her ego had constructed in her mind. This incompatibility is what throws off the ego.
- Never surround yourself with people who always agree with you. Never isolate yourself from the world.
This is a big problem for people in leading positions. They isolate themselves off to some high tower - or office - and because of that, they have no idea what is going on. Even worse, they surround themselves with the so-called "yes-men" who only agree with their superiors as doing otherwise would endanger their own position. They don't want to upset the boss. And the boss doesn't want to be upset.
The result of this is that the leaders will get distorted information and that info will keep being distorted as it moves upwards the hierarchy. I could only imagine how far from reality the information about the battlefield is for Putin's generals - and for himself as well of course.
If you're a leader, you want to be where the action is. Just like great investors will go and physically visit the companies they're about to buy, you also want to see what's going on with your own eyes.
And secondly, always surround yourself with people who don't agree with you - this way you get better feedback and a clearer signal of the reality and therefore, are in a much better position to make better decisions.
Machiavelli talks about this in his famous "The Prince".
Unlucky = luckyFeb 6, 2022 Most of the so-called "unlucky" events in our lives are actually good ones. At least they can easily be framed as such.
Do the second best thingJan 15, 2022 The idea is this: if you can't do the first best thing - the ideal - then do the next best thing instead. E.g., you set yourself a goal to work out ev...
Give yourself permission to be entitledJan 8, 2022 entitlement (noun): complete lack of emotion with regard to deserving something or someone. Give yourself permission to be entitled to the best in lif...
Be PersistentDec 5, 2021 I've come to realize that we often give up on our goals too quickly. I'm not sure why it is, but most people give up way too soon.
Scarcity vs AbundanceNov 20, 2021 Sometimes we live in a tiny world. E.g., when there's not much going on in our lives, it may feel as if this world shrinks like a balloon.
Lose 100 pounds (of anxiety) with this one simple trickOct 30, 2021 God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, Courage to change the things which should be changed, and the Wisdom to...
The real reason tech companies ask hard questionsOct 2, 2021 “Academia doesn’t want too many unmotivated people to attempt medical school, so they set up a screen. Organic chemistry is the killer class, the scr...
Don't be afraid to contradict yourselfSep 25, 2021 Are you afraid to say bold things or express your opinion because you're worried that it maybe contradicts what you've previously said? Don't be.
How to be a high-value personSep 11, 2021 High-value people have many traits that separate them from the regular mass. In this article, I'm going to talk about just one of these traits.
The real truth why some people are bad at mathSep 9, 2021 Why is math considered a subject that some people seem to get and others don't? Why isn't, e.g., history one of those subjects?
The old man in the skyJul 3, 2021 I used to call myself an atheist. I thought the idea of some god sitting up in the sky to be preposterous.
Shortcut to become instantly enlightenedJun 26, 2021 We often tell ourselves things like "be calm" or "cheer up". That is - we try to convince ourselves to change how we feel.
Stop apologizing for who you areJun 6, 2021 I see this tendency where people feel the need to apologize constantly. It makes me nauseous.
Best focusing appMay 9, 2021 A while ago, I wrote that the best workout app is the Centr app. I think it was about a year ago.
If you want to learn to code, start with this languageMay 1, 2021 Python? Java?
I'm moving to another levelApr 10, 2021 I don't relate to most people around me. I feel distant from them.
What is the absolute concrete sign that someone really likes you? 😍Apr 3, 2021 I believe it's investment. It's not touching the hair or the position of legs or even the eyes.
PrinciplesMar 27, 2021 Do you know how to convert binary numbers into a decimal? How do you know that 11010 in binary is 26?
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Men who are white knightsMar 20, 2021 If you pay close attention, you can recognize these types of guys easily. They're not necessarily wearing shining armor and riding a horse, but their...
We have to take responsibility for our livesMar 13, 2021 Because nobody else will. Nobody will come to save us.
PCMar 6, 2021 Political correctness. Also known as one of the most toxic diseases of the modern world.
Stay positive!Feb 27, 2021 What are we going to talk about today? I don’t know, but let’s just run with it.
How I learned Python in less than a week while it takes months for manyFeb 20, 2021 So, I just learned Python. It took me a few days to pick up the syntax and build a couple of simple apps along the way.
One principle to follow in lifeFeb 13, 2021 There are a thousand ways to achieve success in any area of life - whether it be material wealth, professional success, spiritual life, relationships,...
The Power of NoFeb 6, 2021 "No" is ten times a better word than a "yes." "No" is clear and genuine, whereas a "yes" can easily be a fake...
Until you know this one thing, don't start to learn anythingJan 30, 2021 My dear reader, I want to give you a little tip to be a more effective learner. Maybe you already know it, but in case you don't - here it is.
Always prefer form over speedJan 23, 2021 Form over speed is a principle usually (at least to my experience) repeated by physical exercise trainers. Rightfully so, as sacrificing speed while h...
Can you stare at a blank screen for 3 hours?Jan 16, 2021 Probably the most valuable epiphany I've gotten since I began coding - or rather - since I learned how to code, is the following: We can often surpris...
Become a Pro.Jan 10, 2021 What is the differentiating factor between people who have seemingly iron-strong discipline and those who don't? It's actually 2 things.
The most important ideas about achieving unwavering focusJan 2, 2021 Focus - my favorite topic. I've talked about it in this blog either directly or indirectly quite a lot.
Goals? Overrated!Dec 24, 2020 What a positive note to cast with a blog post during Christmas, right? Our society is obsessed with goals.
A higher principle to achieve goals and stay productiveOct 10, 2020 First, I want to stress that even though I believe this to be a universal principle, it's still my opinion and might not work for everyone. People are...
Build your empireAug 30, 2020 I think everyone should try to build their own empire. What do I mean by that?
Slow downAug 23, 2020 Many people are constantly looking for ways to do everything faster. They are into speed-reading, they listen and watch videos on 2x speed and become...
Some life-changing books I've recently readAug 2, 2020 I thought I'd share with my readers something slightly different. As some of you might know, books are super important to me.
Contraction vs expansion - how to start moving up?Jul 12, 2020 The idea is this: we're either in expansion mode, which means that we're thriving and moving up in life. Or, we're contracting - which means, we're mo...
I fired my managerJul 5, 2020 “We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret.” Jim Rohn If the manager of a company constantly fails to d...
The most important message I got from Eric Maria Remarque's 'A Time to Love and a Time to Die'Jun 28, 2020 A novel from 1954 - by Remarque - taking place during WWII. I rarely read fiction.
An update 😉Jun 21, 2020 I thought about giving you - my dear friend and reader - a small update regarding this blog. First, if you wonder about the new minimalistic look, it'...
A simple guide on how to instantly change your mood from bad to goodJun 14, 2020 I’ve been recently pondering whether thoughts produce emotions or do emotions produce thoughts. At first, I thought it’s the emotions that generate th...
What does it really mean to be smart?Jun 12, 2020 Intelligence is one fascinating concept. And there might be more variables to it than we might think.
ReactivenessMay 10, 2020 Let's talk about social dynamics. In every interaction, there's the person who's setting the rhythm while the other is reacting.
Probably the best home work out appApr 3, 2020 Gyms are closed, even the outdoor ones. This pushed me to find a way to train at home harder than the regular average Joe's few pushups and a couple o...
Labeling feelingsMar 21, 2020 Some books recommend labeling feelings/emotions. E.g., that it's a good idea to put a name on a negative feeling, so it'd be easier to deal with it.
Is nostalgia bad?Mar 18, 2020 When I lived in Taiwan, I had the opportunity to stay in an apartment in one of the older parts of Taipei. Living in that apartment felt like travelin...
ObsessionFeb 28, 2020 If there’s one key component to becoming really good at anything, it’s - yes, you guessed it - obsession. We’re all obsessed with something.
Don’t be a dump yardFeb 5, 2020 If someone would dump their garbage to your yard, would you be cool with it? Probably not.
The law of useJan 31, 2020 The law of use - which is one of the laws of the Universe - states that if knowledge has been revealed to you, you have to use it. Wisdom is not meant...
On freedom of outcomeJan 25, 2020 Spiritual teachers talk about this concept of outcome independence. It means that one shouldn’t be dependent on a certain outcome but should accept wh...
The one thing that always gives you the strength to stand up againJan 18, 2020 Purpose. Life is ruthless.
How to be interesting in social situationsJan 17, 2020 To appear interesting, you first have to be interested in it. We tend to focus too much on ourselves.
Pain = lessonJan 16, 2020 Imagine if everything we’d do would go smoothly and without any challenges. This would be a pretty boring reality.
Focusing on what you can measureJan 14, 2020 We tend to focus on what business people call the “lag measures” - the things we can’t measure immediately. E.g., focusing on a number of sales by the...
Say “no”Jan 11, 2020 I’ve come to realize that people who get things done and achieve great things - successful people - say “no” all the time. They rarely agree to anythi...
Deep identity changeDec 31, 2019 Now, when I say “deep identity change,” I’m not talking about a complete and total change of your self regarding absolutely everything. I don’t know i...
Your reality - your rulesDec 29, 2019 As human beings, we are constantly pinging off the environment. There are a couple of reasons for that.
Access your subconscious mind to solve even big problems: here’s how!Dec 28, 2019 I have always been a fan of long walks, but not until recently; I started to do these walks with a purpose. Imagine this: If your conscious mind is li...
How to get something for nothing? Some thoughts on click baitsDec 22, 2019 The answer is: you can’t. The almighty Universe doesn’t work like that.
Turn off internet access at homeDec 21, 2019 I’ve been recently experimenting with having no Internet at home. Before anyone labels me as “eccentric” and anti-tech because I’m against social medi...
Young kids are not automatically tech wizardsDec 20, 2019 I find amusing the notion that the young kids nowadays are all considered “tech wizards” because they are born with “iPads and iPhones in their hands”...
What is social media? Are you using it, or is it using you?Dec 19, 2019 When it comes to social media - there are three types of people: people who don’t use it, people who use it, and people who are used by it. Social med...
“Will money make you happy?”Dec 11, 2019 We’ve all heard this question. Some hear it constantly by their jealous peers who try to rationalize their life and choices.
Who are you, and where are you going?Dec 10, 2019 For the past few years, I wasn’t really sure where am I going with my life. I didn’t know what do I want and what am I even doing.
On New Year’s resolutions: a word of caution (+tips)Dec 6, 2019 Christmas is coming, and many people all over the world promise to either quit smoking, fix their diet, or learn a new skill. That’s awesome! However,...
General knowledge vs. specific knowledgeDec 5, 2019 Have you ever heard the saying “knowledge is power”? Well, let me break it to you: knowledge is not power.
There is no mapDec 4, 2019 There’s an interesting anecdote about a zen master Bassui Tokushō (抜隊 得勝) in the book “Zen Radicals, Rebels, and Reformers” by Perle Besserman and Man...
What’s your uniqueness?Nov 27, 2019 “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” Oscar Wilde Only you can be the best at who you are. No one can beat you at that game.
5 core habits that drag you out of depressionNov 26, 2019 If I had to pick five habits that I consider life-transforming, they would be the following: waking up early, meditating, exercising, reading books, a...
How to set goals: simple, effective tipsNov 25, 2019 First, as Ray Dalio wrote in his “Principles”, you can have just about anything you want, but not everything you want.” So, I recommend writing down e...
Always take responsibilityNov 24, 2019 Everything that happens to you is your fault. Always! E.g., when you’re a team leader, and your team fails, because “someone messed up, then it’s not...
Don’t seek for recognitionNov 23, 2019 Seeking for recognition implies that you’re not in control. You’re essentially at the mercy of the other person.
No more waitingNov 22, 2019 The whole concept of “waiting” is silly. It’s an illusion, really.
Telling others ”what you’re going to do”Nov 21, 2019 How often have you seen people on social write about what they’re going to do? Many call themselves freelancers or CEO’s and talk so much about what t...
Two sides of the same coinNov 20, 2019 We often don’t see the polarities that are practically everywhere. Some say that god exists; some say it doesn’t.
The formula for growth (included book list)Nov 19, 2019 Our mind is not on our side when it comes to personal growth. It’s as if it tries to sabotage our every effort to move up.
What is real confidence?Nov 18, 2019 Confidence is not about knowing that you will succeed. It’s the knowing that no matter what happens, you’ll be just fine.
Stop comparingNov 17, 2019 Most of our problems are just us comparing ourselves to others. If you would be the only one in the world, would money, status, height, weight, looks,...
Get two (or more) for the price of one: discounts for your brainNov 16, 2019 Our thinking process tends to be quite narrow when we consider the cause and effect aspects of our activities and actions. I bring few examples: “If I...
Sometimes the grass really is greener on the other sideNov 15, 2019 We’ve all heard the saying that “the grass is always greener on the other side” - that it’s easier or better somewhere else. Usually, it’s just an ill...
You can have it but…Nov 14, 2019 Never think that a goal is unattainable. I used to think that this or that goal is not for me because I’m not x, y, or z.
Cutting your losses: don’t read books that you don’t likeNov 13, 2019 I used to have a mindset that when I pick up a book to read, I have to finish it - even if I don’t like it. Don’t do that! Don’t read books that you d...
Accountability mirrorNov 12, 2019 This is an awesome tool I got from David Goggins’ book “Can’t Hurt Me.” If you haven’t read it already, I highly highly recommend doing so. I write do...
Toxic people: how to recognize and what to do about them (this can save your life)Nov 11, 2019 “Pablo Picasso was notorious for sucking the energy out of the people he met. His granddaughter Marina claimed that he squeezed people like one of hi...
I’m differentNov 10, 2019 I’m different than most people. That’s not me being cocky - that’s a fact.
Always learn something newNov 9, 2019 Here's the thing. If you're not moving up in life, you're moving down.
How to become rejection proofNov 8, 2019 The fear of rejection is one of the biggest and most common fears people face. It’s the kind of fear that stops us from doing the things we want to do...
Produce more, consume lessNov 7, 2019 Most people are only concerned with consuming without thinking about the return of value. They watch TV, consume social media, buy stuff, etc.
The absolute bulletproof way to wake up early in the morningNov 6, 2019 My whole life, I wanted to wake up early in the morning, Yet I always failed at this, no matter what I tried. There were times when I managed to wake...
People who have good social skills all have this one traitNov 5, 2019 If there’s one thing that the people who are great at socializing have in common, it’s the ability to communicate their character very fast. Very fast...
How to keep going even on the bad days - secrets to achieving your goalsNov 4, 2019 There are days when we feel absolutely shit. In those days, we might not feel like doing our work.
Identity fatigue will drain you of your mental energyNov 3, 2019 In Buddhism, one of the main themes is the illusion of identity. It means that who we think we are, is just a label we put on ourselves - a mental con...
Fixing internal problems with external solutionsNov 2, 2019 The following story might be familiar to you. Especially if you’ve read “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” by Mark Manson.
Stop trying to control everythingNov 1, 2019 “How’s my hair today? “, “What about this grease on my shirt?”, “What will people think if they see I have a spot on my pants?”, “What about my pimple...
Why everyone needs to read “Can’t Hurt Me” by David GogginsOct 31, 2019 If you haven’t already, go to a bookstore or Amazon and get that book. It’s one of the best books I’ve ever read.
Top insights I've learned about reading booksOct 30, 2019 Be picky about what you read ​ It took me until recently to realize that when it comes to reading books, it’s not about how many books...
“She don't want to be saved, don't save her”Oct 29, 2019 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ue5oHmUGiMM
Stop drifting through life and wake up!Oct 29, 2019 “To progress again, man must remake himself. And he cannot remake himself without suffering.
The ability to have sustained focus is a major skill of the futureOct 28, 2019 The attention span of a regular millennial is apparently 12 seconds. Now, it doesn’t really matter whether these numbers are correct or whether it’s +...
How not to quit once it gets toughOct 27, 2019 There’s an awesome book called “The Dip” by one of my favorite authors, Seth Godin. What is” the dip”?
You don't need to do everything - do what really mattersOct 26, 2019 Roughly 80% of wealth is owned by 20% of people, 80% of crimes are committed by 20% of criminals, 20% of posts generate 80% of traffic, 20% of the emp...
The #1 reason behind distractions (powerful ways to remain in control)Oct 25, 2019 While doing your work, have you ever suddenly discovered yourself dicking around watching Youtube videos, browsing social media, or doing anything oth...
How to get a massive productivity boost using binaural beatsOct 24, 2019 I’ve been experimenting with binaural beats for a while now and come to the conclusion that they do work. In fact, it’s scientifically proven, so no n...
Think “less is better”Oct 23, 2019 More, more, more, and more. This is the mindset of an average consumer, as well as the mantra of almost every company.
Why having more choices is bad for youOct 22, 2019 “Should I kill myself, or have a cup of coffee? But in the end one needs more courage to live than to kill himself.” Albert Camus, A Happy Death We...
Focus on the other person, not on yourselfOct 21, 2019 In an interaction, we usually focus only partly on what the other person says - the second part is focusing on what we could say next. I think we do t...
The fool-proof way to make even the hardest habits stickOct 20, 2019 This method is so powerful; it’s the equivalent of using a machine gun in a fight where everyone else is using knives. Perhaps I’m exaggerating a bit,...
The secret to control your emotions effortlessly and to stay in charge of every interaction (superpower)Oct 19, 2019 Why we lose control of our emotions? ​ There’s a great book called “The Chimp Paradox” by Steve Peters in which he explains in simple t...
We're in controlOct 18, 2019 We have so much more control over our lives than we think we have. Understanding this is, in essence, the difference of seeing possibilities vs.
Why meditating every day is one of the best things you can doOct 17, 2019 Meditation creates a gap between the impulse and reaction. Here’s how many people go through their entire life: there’s an impulse e.g. “I’m hungry”,...
A powerful productivity hack that guarantees you massive success (a shocking revelation)Oct 16, 2019 Do the most important thing in the morning. The first step is to find out what your goal is.
Less is more in the digital ageOct 15, 2019 The price of the car is not only the price you pay to acquire the car. There's also the price of the fuel of course, and the price of maintenance.
Stop clicking the like buttonOct 14, 2019 The infamous like button - first created in 2005 and then popularized in 2007 at FriendFeed (later acquired by Facebook) is probably one of the worst...
Why you need to always learn new things (not what you think)Oct 13, 2019 The human brain is a constantly growing living organism that regenerates new brain cells (neurons) constantly. It craves to learn new things.
How to instantly become calm and keep thoughts and emotions under controlOct 12, 2019 Don't try to shut down thoughts and emotions - they're a natural part of us. Instead, do not get caught up on them.
Use your unconscious mindOct 11, 2019 We need more stillness in our lives. There's too much noise.
Be turned on by obstaclesOct 10, 2019 Stoicism is most likely the best form of philosophy out there. The reason is this: it’s practical.
The Muse and her giftsOct 9, 2019 Apparently, Zeus had nine daughters with Mnemosyne called the Muses. They represent the source of knowledge for all things regarding creativity like a...
On being unapologeticOct 8, 2019 Don’t ever apologize for who you are, what you like, what you enjoy, and what you want. Be absolutely unapologetic.
How to stop judging othersOct 7, 2019 For quite some time, I've been pondering about why do we judge other people so much and how to stop doing this. We're essentially little tyrants that...
You’re the average of the five people you spend your time withOct 6, 2019 “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” Jim Rohn Many people don’t agree with this quote by Jim Rohn, but I do. I thi...
The metamorphosis has to happenOct 5, 2019 There are some things in life that you not only want to have or achieve - you absolutely must achieve them. There’s just no other alternative.
Finding your life’s taskOct 4, 2019 If you’ve read Mastery by Robert Greene, then the following story is familiar; if not - here is a story of Yoky Matsuoka. As a teenager in Japan in th...
Have your own platform: Facebook is dyingOct 3, 2019 If you’re an artist or a business and you’re building your following and business on someone else’s platform like Facebook or Instagram, then you’re p...
Tweaking your lifeOct 2, 2019 What brings success? What gets you to your goals?
The best way to give feedbackOct 1, 2019 Giving feedback is a sort of a delicate thing. It’s delicate because it’s very easy for people to take offense and therefore reject the feedback in it...
Seek to get triggeredSep 30, 2019 What’ve I’ve noticed is that not many people have the ability to hold two or more opposing ideas in their minds at once. Let’s take politics, for exam...
Focus on the people who appreciate youSep 29, 2019 Focus on the people that appreciate you and your work. Don't focus on those who don't.
Show upSep 28, 2019 Show up no matter what. Show up every day, not because you need something from others but because you want to.
Status anxietySep 27, 2019 Instead of working on ourselves to look cool why not work on ourselves to actually be cool? Why are we constantly scanning around to see if we “fit” i...
Why escalators are dangerousSep 25, 2019 Some people use the escalator or the elevator and then go to the gym to use the treadmill or the stepper machine. I find this behavior fascinating.
“Why is this happening to me?”Sep 25, 2019 So, today morning started very interestingly: first I damaged my shoe to the sharp edge of a foot of a table. Then I spilled coffee all over a coffees...
The amygdalaSep 24, 2019 Seth Godin calls it the lizard brain, Steven Pressfield calls it the resistance. However you want to call it, we all have it.
On the importance of being authenticSep 22, 2019 I think that authenticity has become one of the scarcest resources. There’s so little of it out there nowadays.
Self-teach yourselfSep 22, 2019 I think it’s so cool we can nowadays learn almost anything we want to learn. All the information and theory are online.
Smaller is betterSep 21, 2019 Almost anything is better at small than big. Small is compact, weighs less, is more portable, usually more flexible and overall more efficient.
Escaping life vs. living lifeSep 20, 2019 If you do an audit on your life, how much time do you spend escaping your life and how much of it is actually living it? The way I see it: most people...
The “green lumber fallacy”Sep 20, 2019 What do we need to know to make decisions? It turns out we might often be very wrong about the data we actually need in order to have success.
Maintaining your self-imageSep 19, 2019 Here's something you might've not known about yourself: in your field, you're probably not as good as you think you are. And, this is especially true...
Don’t check your phone before doing your workSep 17, 2019 Checking your phone for news, updates, emails, notifications for new messages, feed updates for Facebook, Instagram, etc. before doing your work might...
Survive to thriveSep 17, 2019 I like to write articles. Even though I might not write good ones every day, I write every day, and I do it for a reason.
Do your work before breakfastSep 16, 2019 I’ve only recently started to realize that eating breakfast might not be better than eating breakfast right after getting up in the morning. You can h...
RAS and The SecretSep 15, 2019 Have you ever wondered how much data comes on our way every day and moment? How many pieces of information are available to you at this very moment.
CategorizationSep 14, 2019 There's no need to categorize ourselves. We're often too worried about who we are or in which box do we fit.
Why I write and why you should tooSep 13, 2019 Writing makes you think. It’s impossible to write without thinking at least a little bit.
Having vs. doing vs. beingSep 12, 2019 There are three main levels of operating in this world. Spiritually speaking, people at the lowest paradigm mostly care about having - they worry abou...
Self-sabotagingSep 11, 2019 Here’s the thing: our unconscious mind runs the show. Whatever is down, there affects us - and if it’s not dealt with, it runs our entire life.
We’re all tyrants insideSep 10, 2019 We all judge other people in some way or another. Even if we don’t say anything out loud, in our heads, we still evaluate them by the way they act, dr...
Habit in a nutshell: why we check our phones so often?Sep 9, 2019 In the 1970s, Michael Zeiler experimented with pigeons by rewarding them after they clicked a button. In the beginning, he gave them food every time t...
Nobody will save youSep 8, 2019 Follow instructions, shut up, do as you’re told, don’t stand out too much, don’t ask too many questions, use a blue ink pen, do not color over the lin...
Should we always be positive?Sep 7, 2019 I think so. Being positive is not the same as being happy or feeling great.
Give, and don’t expect anything for itSep 6, 2019 Help others - share tips, start a blog, or a Youtube channel. Offer value for free without wanting anything in return.
The importance of balance (compositional technique)Sep 5, 2019 Hi, and good morning or evening - depending on where in the world you are - I hope you're having an awesome day. I want to talk a bit about compositio...
The best writing appSep 4, 2019 Typora with the Newsprint theme. ’It’s the best writing program ’I’ve ever used - and ’I’ve tried a lot of them.
If you don’t get what you want...Sep 3, 2019 Many people get really angry or frustrated when they don’t get something they think they deserve. After all, the feeling of frustration is that someth...
How to never run out of things to say?Sep 2, 2019 I used to struggle a lot with being able to hold a conversation. I often “ran out of things to say.” Or rather, I actually ran out of questions.
Is competition good or bad?Sep 1, 2019 Here are two ideas about competition. First, there is the idea that competition puts producers under pressure to produce better products.
What's the alternative?Aug 31, 2019 Some things just need to be done. We don't want to because that particular way might be uncomfortable but we know it's the only way.
Strive for better problemsAug 30, 2019 Everyone wants to have a better life. A life without problems where everything is easy, and there are no struggles.
Always carry a camera in your pocket or around your neckAug 29, 2019 I don’t think it’s a good idea to have a camera in your bag. Either have your camera around your neck or in your pocket.
If you're not growing, you're dyingAug 28, 2019 There is no middle. It can only be one or the other.
Don't lose your momentumAug 27, 2019 Momentum is one of the best things in life. It’s valuable, and if you don’t appreciate it enough, it will go away.
Not everyone will like youAug 26, 2019 We all have that need to be liked. Some more than others but nevertheless we all want people to not disapprove of us.
Quality is not always better than quantityAug 25, 2019 I think in most cases, quantity weighs over quality. Especially when it comes to making art.
Top photography tips from Steve McCurryAug 24, 2019 Steve McCurry (born 1950) is known mostly for his amazing portraits - especially for the famous “Afghan Girl” photo. He’s a member of Magnum Photos si...
We’re in the futureAug 23, 2019 Everyone is constantly on their phones. People don’t say “hi” to each other, let alone know their neighbors.
What is depression?Aug 22, 2019 We tend associate negative emotions with something "bad" and positive emotions with "good." However, a better way to look at it wo...
The 'thank you' economyAug 21, 2019 I was having a small dinner at the Kou Xuan Pin Spicy Stinky Tofu restaurant - a restaurant like every other in Taipei night market. At least for a fo...
Why it’s crucial that you do what you loveAug 20, 2019 How many people are stuck in a job that they hate? Why is it so?
Project LuxembourgAug 19, 2019 As some of you may know, I am based in Luxembourg officially the Grand Duchy of Luxembourg (Groussherzogtum Lëtzebuerg). This is not the case anymore.
Art and imaginary drawn linesAug 18, 2019 People like to put art into boxes: “this is a painting, this is sculpture, this is photography, this is music, this is not, this is this, this is that...
Secrets to become inspired and effectively smash creative blocksAug 18, 2019 I believe all artists have these “blocks” every once in a while. Feeling of discouragement or lack of motivation, inspiration, and will to do somethin...
How meat eggs and coffee will make you happierAug 17, 2019 If you avoid eating carbohydrates and eat healthy fats, your body will start to burn fat for fuel. It’s called the ketogenic diet.
5 important lessons by a master of photography – Lu Nan (呂楠 )Aug 16, 2019 Intro ​ Lu Nan (born 1962) is a legendary Chinese photographer and a Magnum correspondent. Lu Nan, 1990 (Magnum Photos) By nature, Lu...
On dreamsAug 16, 2019 Step number 1: Write down what you really want to do in life. Step number 2: Watch Into the Wild.
2 key lessons you can learn from Mikhael SubotzkyAug 15, 2019 Intro ​ Mikhael Subotsky (born 1981) is a South African artist. At the age of 25, he was one of the youngest photographers ever to join...
Fear of photographing mannequinsAug 14, 2019 By “fear,” I mean more the “what do other people think of me?” type of thought process. Lately, I’ve been photographing a lot of inanimate objects as...
What to photograph?Aug 14, 2019 Here’s a thought: it’s not about what you photograph, it’s about how you photograph. We put so much emphasis on what is “worthy” to shoot and what’s n...
The worth of picturesAug 13, 2019 Everyone has heard the old adage “A picture is worth a thousand words.” It implies the notion that in some cases you can simply show the picture witho...
Art x self-developmentAug 12, 2019 I hope you're all having a great day so far. Some of you may be wondering why I write about topics such as productivity or about the importance of foc...
8 important insights Marc Riboud can teach you about photographyAug 11, 2019 Intro ​ Marc Riboud (1923 – 2016) was a French photographer. He joined Magnum in the fifties and left the agency in 1979.
On the importance of doing deep workAug 10, 2019 I’m not going on a long rant about social media and smartphones and how these things significantly inhibit our ability to focus on our work. Instead,...
The hard thing about hard thingsAug 9, 2019 This is the title of Ben Horowitz’s book. The guy who built a company from scratch and then sold it for $1.65 billion.
How to know if your photo is good?Aug 8, 2019 I recently received an e-mail from a follower who asked me how to know if a photo is good enough to share it with others. It’s an excellent question,...
I need more informationAug 8, 2019 The US intelligence services were highly criticized for not detecting the 9/11 attacks even though there were massive amounts of evidence of the occur...
You are not your storiesAug 7, 2019 “I’m a professional; I don’t do this; I don’t do that; I can’t do that; this is not me” are some of the thoughts we all have had. Our identity.
10 lessons on getting good at photography fastAug 6, 2019 Introduction ​ By “good,” I mean good. I don’t mean becoming a master - that’s another story that I’m not qualified to tell.
What do you find funny?Aug 5, 2019 A couple of days ago on one evening I took a piece of paper and wrote on it: “What do I find funny?” I stared this piece of paper for several very lon...
3 Tips for street portraitsAug 4, 2019 Intro ​ By no means am I good at portraits. I'm just learning, but there's a couple of things that I'm starting to understand.
Be turned on by your own workAug 4, 2019 I regularly look at some of my own photographs and re-read my own articles. Not because to evaluate or edit them but because I think they're really go...
Don’t be a sheepAug 3, 2019 This is the tendency I have noticed (and I’ve been guilty of this of course): we read or listen to what one person says in a video, book or article, a...
5 tips on being more productiveAug 2, 2019 Tip #1. Turn pro ​ This is the term Steven Pressfield uses.
Find your laneAug 1, 2019 This is a follow up to my article “Focus on your strengths.” There’s a couple of things I want to say from a different angle that contributes to that...
External vs. internal metricsJul 31, 2019 I think the biggest issue with social media is not even that its mostly a waste of time and its addictiveness. The huge culprit of social media is the...
Top 10 lessons Austin Kleon has taught me about art and creativityJul 30, 2019 Intro ​ If you do any kind of art or creative work, then I really really really really recommend you to check out his three books: Stea...
Marketing lesson #8: email newsletterJul 29, 2019 As is true for so many things, the best time to have built your network was yesterday. The second best time is right now.
Marketing lesson #7: own your platform and your followersJul 28, 2019 Many photographers and artists don't have their own website. They rely solely on Instagram or some other social media platform.
Marketing lesson #6: price is marketingJul 27, 2019 Every once in a while, there is an article or a story of a photographer who complains about clients lowballing them or that photographers don’t get pa...
Marketing lesson #5: find your people (following)Jul 26, 2019 Business geniuses Eric Ries and Peter Thiel talk about this false hope of” build it, and they will come” in their books The Lean Startup and Zero to O...
Marketing lesson #4: use your real nameJul 25, 2019 One of the best ideas I got from Erik Kim (besides owning your platform) is to use your real name. If you're an artist, using your real name might see...
Marketing lesson #3: the power of word of mouthJul 24, 2019 Forget about SEO and all the fancy optimization methods, word of mouth is probably the most powerful thing an artist or a business can ever have. Word...
Marketing lesson #2: be authenticJul 23, 2019 There’s a story of Isaac Asimov having great admiration for Carl Sagan and his books. This is what Asimov had to say of Sagan: “You are my idea of a g...
Marketing lesson #1: provide value and create trustJul 22, 2019 Providing value means continuously putting stuff out there. Blogging consistently, making videos, taking part in interactions on social media like ans...
Why artists need to market themselves?Jul 21, 2019 So that, you the artist, wouldn’t starve to death. No, but seriously.
The willpower mythJul 20, 2019 We tend to think that some people have stronger willpower than we do. If we give in on something, we simply blame it on our weak willpower.
Create urgencyJul 19, 2019 We all have that thing we want to do, but we’re not doing them. I’m not talking about some to-do list.
There are no wrong choicesJul 18, 2019 We are sometimes too quick to judge and categorize events as good or bad. E.g., you want to get a particular job in a certain city.
Street photography is a social thingJul 17, 2019 Other than paparazzo’s hunting down celebrities, street photography may be the most controversial type of photography. There’s probably not a single p...
Photography: Look for simple backgroundsJul 16, 2019 In photography, isolating your subject(s) is essential, and a sign of a quality photo. There are different ways to do that, such as using shallow dept...
You’re already awesomeJul 15, 2019 We have this tendency to think we have to do XYZ to become good enough. Right now I suck, but if I get fit or become rich, then I’ve made it.
Crabs in a bucketJul 14, 2019 We want to fit in and that’s what we’re being told to do. We want to be different, but not to the extent that we stand out.
Real artists shipJul 13, 2019 Steve Jobs said that. At least, it's attributed to him.
Stop theorizing, go test it yourself!Jul 12, 2019 I'm find it almost always amusing when someone comments on some video or article that this or that wouldn't work. "Try this in my home town and y...
Focus on your strengthsJul 11, 2019 You've probably heard about the famous 10 000 rule (popularized by Malcolm Gladwell). The idea is that if you practice the thing for 10 000 hours, you...
What do homing pigeons and humans have in common?Jul 10, 2019 If you take a homing pigeon, put it in a cage, cover the cage and drive the bird thousands of miles to a random place, and let it free, it will find a...
Share your workJul 9, 2019 A lot of us want to make art and share it with others, but we also feel that something holds us back. Why is that and can we do something about it?
Hating is a luxuryJul 8, 2019 One of my articles got recently published in PetaPixel, and as I read through some of the comments, I wanted to write about the commenting culture in...
Input = outputJul 7, 2019 The idea behind the title is this: the quality of your input, determines the quality of your output. I believe most of us want to make great stuff, pr...
Collaborative vs. competitive framesJul 6, 2019 When we are in an environment where we don't know anyone or most of the people, we tend to be in a competitive frame. It's us vs.
BusyJul 5, 2019 We live in a world of too much. There’s so much going on all the time and so much to do.
The ultimate guide to overcoming fear in street photography (and in life)Jul 4, 2019 Intro ​ First things first. For me, street photography is more than just taking candid photos.
If you would be a machineJul 2, 2019 How much differently would you treat yourself? If you’d look at yourself from a third person’s view, would you keep yourself on the job you currently...
Simple formula for successJul 1, 2019 If there’s a formula for success, it would be this: simple actions + time = success. We often think that really successful people, got it by chance or...
On the importance of providing value and being open to receiveJun 30, 2019 One of the biggest epiphanies I have had is the importance of giving value. I'm pretty sure that when I was younger I was constantly thinking about ta...
Everyone's a photographer until MJun 29, 2019 I see a lot of these “Everyone’s a photographer until M” T-shirts on Instagram. For those of you who don’t know, M stands for manual mode in a camera.
Photography: vertical vs horizontal, how to know?Jun 28, 2019 Ever wondered why some photos are shot in horizontal (landscape mode) and others in vertical (portrait mode)? I know I have.
Why it's bad to be result orientedJun 27, 2019 To be “goal oriented” is something you can see a lot e.g. in job advertisements. “We're looking for a goal oriented person ....” etc.
Stop this bad habitJun 26, 2019 Leonardo Da Vinci started his day by writing down the things he wanted to learn that day. Most people start their day by checking their phones for not...
On congruencyJun 25, 2019 What is congruency? It's when your thoughts, words and actions are aligned.
A very important principle many photographers missJun 24, 2019 The subject to background separation. This is one of the most important aspects of photography and one of the least talked about.
Embrace chaosJun 23, 2019 I posted about this on Twitter as well a while ago and thought elaborating on it a bit further. Uncertainty = death ​ Our brains want t...
Why it's not a good idea to tell others what you're going to doJun 22, 2019 Ego gratification, that's why. I'm going to write a book, I'm going to establish a business, I'm going do this and do that.
Forget big heavy cameras and get a compact cameraJun 21, 2019 The main reason is this: You'll be a lot more happier. You'll be able to actually enjoy photography because you don't have to carry a big clunky camer...
How to form a habit? Powerful techniques to increase your success 10XJun 19, 2019 I am quite curious about the subject myself and read couple of books about it as well. Perhaps the reason behind this is that I've struggled a lot wit...
Secret to take great photos of people: the one thing that makes a huge differenceJun 17, 2019 Introduction: read me! ​ Whether you're an established portrait photographer, aspiring street photographer or someone looking to just m...
How resistance is blocking you becoming who you want to beJun 14, 2019 Note: This is a long one, but depending where you are in your life, it might change your life. Literally.
How to be an artist?Jun 11, 2019 First, we need to understand the “what.” This is my understanding of art: It’s not just painting or writing. Art can be anything.
On being indispensableJun 7, 2019 Imagine 3 waiters. Two of them are excellent at their job.
Street photography: 5 reasons to get closeMay 23, 2019 Introduction to the "why" ​ There is no way to start this article without the famous quote by the not any less famous war pho...