This is how complaining looks to others

We all complain.

The ideal is perhaps never to complain, but that's impossible since we're all human beings.

Nevertheless, we should strive for the ideal.

So, there's a difference between complaining a lot and complaining rarely.

If you want to know how others perceive when you complain about your life, your circumstances, or anything else, it's like this:

Imagine, you stepped in dog shit and now you tell everyone about it. And you keep talking about it: how much it sucks and how your shoe is now dirty, how your day is ruined. You go on about it for five minutes, ten minutes. Maybe even more.

Nobody wants to hear that. Nobody cares.

Briefly mention "Oh, look! I stepped in shit, whatever, anyway.... " Clean up your shoe and move on.

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